What does it mean to be attracted to someone? To be attached, to feel connected?
How does one know the difference between being ‘interested’ in someone, having a ‘crush’ on someone, to liking someone, to feeling something deeper and evidently falling in love with someone?
What is this human need or desire to be and feel attached or connected to another human? Is that how we are designed to be and live, or somehow have accustomed ourselves to eventually be and live?
Too many questions.
On a random hour of the day, I’d lay a mat on the floor, lie down and do a bit of thinking.
I think of the good things in life, happy and fond memories. I’d also come to realize that a few of these happy memories tend to hurt.
There’s an ache in my heart and somewhere deep within in me I’m in pain. Deep nostalgic pain.
It hurts to think of friends who’ve migrated or I’m not in touch with anymore. I ache recalling the long phone calls and endless laughter over stupid things. It saddens me to remember the little sweet things we’d done together.
It’s all come to an end.
And the happy memories do hurt.
Pretty much sums it up…
What a roller coaster ride!
I don’t know where I stand today but I do know that I will make it through…