Inspire and motivate 

2015 has been hard on me. I’m not complaining but I’ve gone through a whirlwind of situations, struggles and emotions that it’s kind of taken on a toll on me. 

I’ve tried my best to remain positive and upbeat, to look at the good things in life and find proper meaning in my life just to get through each day. 

This journey has not been easy and the worst isn’t over yet but I’m hopeful and eager to see what 2016 would be like and bring into my life. 

I still cling to the idea that your happiness lies in your hands and that no one but you can control your life. Learn to motivate yourself even during the worst days ever because you only have one life to live. 

Be inspired by looking back on your life and the things you’ve achieved this year. I’m amazed I even got through some of the months. But here I am and here you are too! Give yourself a pat on the back and celebrate yourself. Don’t give up on yourself and the dreams you hold inside. Next year could be yours; the year everything comes right. 

Much love to you all! 


Stop being afraid 

Oh the pursuit of happiness is a never ending kind of one and like I said in one of my earlier posts, you cannot force happiness upon your life or chase after it. It’s a gradual process. 

I know that it’s a leap of faith that you take when you want to be true to yourself and not let what others think or say affect you but that is also what is going to bring you true happiness. When you are comfortable in your own skin, when you let go of your worries and inhibitions, what else is there to bring you down and make you unhappy? Nothing! Stop thinking about what others think or might be thinking. It’s a waste of time, trust me. Their negativity is not worth your time or your life so learn to let it go. Learn to be happy and content with the way you are and who you are and happiness will come naturally. 

Again, it’s not an easy process. You might hurt people along the way but keep in mind that if you choose otherwise and instead make others happy, you are neglecting yourself and making yourself unhappy. Question is – is it worth it? If it isn’t, then learn to let it all go and just be you. 



 Life is too short to have any regrets so my mantra is to just be who you are, do what you want to do, go where you want to go and say what you want to say. Why shy away? No matter what you do in life, there will always be people who will be angry, upset or disappointed in you. Know that you cannot please everybody at the same time. Listen to your heart and do as you please. Life is too short to be wasted on negativity and other people’s opinions. Make your own choices and go your own way. Keep yourself happy and be exactly who you are – you 😊